the rest from `tools/convert_boost.sh`.
* replace boost::function, boost::bind with std::function and std::bind.
This required some manual fixes, notably std::placeholders,
some static_casts<>, and boost::function::clear -> = {}.
We discovered in the past that the C++ API for GSource/Glib::Source has some fatal and unfixable flaws. Copy similar
code and just use the C API for GSource instead
This is based on code from earlier commits that were later reversed, but we need some mechanism
to ensure that threads have a thread local tempo map ptr set. The big difference is that this
time we do not implement this for all instances of an AbstractUI - implementation is left to
each thread/event loop