* videotimeline now immediately marks the session dirty on
every state-changing operation
* video-montor is polled every 2.5 seconds for menu-relevant state info
(ontop, OSD,..) and every 30 seconds for full state (window pos, size,..)
* new interface to query the video-monitor for its state and wait for
all replies - terminating the process and using ::wait() is no longer
required
* Ardour> quit and Ardour > close-session does no longer close the video
session to enforce video-monitor state sync but uses above new interface
* Menu > View > Video Monitor -- bi-directional communication
with xjadeo for window-state and OSD.
* fix saving state on session close (wait for xjadeo to terminate)
